How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 01:49

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What I need from you?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What 10 things have you stopped doing in your life?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why do wives cheat on their loyal husbands?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

That's it for today.

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Ask yourself:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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